Saturday, June 13, 2009

Pluck not the wayside flower

Pluck not the wayside flower;
It is the traveler's dower. ~William Allingham I have a garden friend, some one's garden I walk by, and admire, sometimes we chat. She lives on a corner lot, near the hospital, and has the most admirable salmon, and red poppies bordering her lawn. Huge, colorful beacons that are apparently just begging to be plucked, snipped, cut, snitched or broken off. She never has a seed pod left to give away any precious seed. Every last one of them is stolen, not given away, but taken. In the early morning by the gentleman out walking his dog, in the evening by the young family pushing a baby stroller, in broad daylight by the older woman with the large shopping bag. They leave nothing but green twigs starkly pointing to the empty sky. People even go so far as to steal the poppy pods when they are still green, before the seeds have ripened, obviously they want them before they all get taken by someone else. It is a good thing that these beautiful poppies are a perennial variety or they would never get a chance to reseed. Having a gorgeous flower garden near the hospital comes with it's own difficulties, many of her neighbors have reported seeing people marching right up to a stunning rose bush and taking a bouquet of flowers. Does this mean that the hospital gift shop is charging a premium price for cut flowers and visitors need to get them at a reduced price from the neighbors garden. Is that called being cheap, or opportunistic? It is one thing to lean over the garden fence and admire from afar, it is quite another to plod through the poppies and help yourself. It might be time for my garden friend to adopt a very large guard dog. They can call him "Poppy".

19 comments:

  1. Wow! That's just wrong. I wonder if a well placed sign that asks people to refrain from picking her flowers would help. I suppose it's a form of compliment, in an absurd way. I feel like an intruder when I step onto someone's property to smell their roses, I can't imagine stealing one.

    Do tell her I love the soft pink variety.

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  2. Man! People have some nerve. I bet if they just asked she would glady share.

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  3. Hi Jen, I don't think much makes me angrier than people who steal, and that is what this is. It is thievery pure and simple. I should write about it too. I really don't understand why others don't see it the same why. Thanks for bringing this to our attention. She should get a very large dog & name him Poppy indeed.

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  4. Excellent post, Jen...your photos are gorgeous, too! Garden theft is a big problem with street side plantings...I've read of entire plants being dug up in a few neighborhoods in Nashville. I can only imagine how infuriating it would be to lose plants this way...gail

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  5. How terrible that people would be that inconsiderate. Thanks for sharing the beautiful photos.

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  6. That is so awful. I won't even take a seed from a public park without asking someone in charge. The worst part of it is that most gardeners love to share. I have had things taken like peaches from my peach trees or gas from my mower or eggs from my chickens and the ironic part is that I would have given it to them if they had just asked. It so offends to have it stolen. I would love to know your friend's address if you could share I would love to send her some poppy seed from Texas and I may even paint her a cute sign about asking before picking. Just email me if she is interested.
    Debbie

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  7. For those of us who can't read this size font today, I published everything as usual. For some reason Blogger decided to change it, and I can't revert back to the old font. Sorry about how difficult it is to read, and I promise to try and fix it over and over until I get it right.

    Jen

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  8. Texas Daisy, that is too kind of you. It is frustrating to hear that people don't consider anything private property anymore.

    I will stop by again and ask her if she would like some seeds, or a small sign. And I will let her know about the wonderful supportive comments everyone has left.

    Jen

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  9. Hi there! I love poppy's. I need to plant some this year.

    I have two of your print/cards on my desk at work so I look at them everyday. Thank you again. I love them;)

    Have a great Saturday!

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  10. I used to live on a farm. We had asparagus growing on the ditch bank. I would see people just stopping and picking every last stem, just before I got a chance to harvest it myself. I figure I paid for the water, it is my land. they had a LOT of nerve.
    Now that we live in town, people suggest I do what those thieves did to my farm, and I have never had the nerve to EVER go asparagus hunting, even if it is just a field, with no house nearby.
    I have few flowers in my front yard for that very reason. I have seen other's flowers picked and thrown by the wayside later by school kids passing by. Just being destructive. That really gets to me.
    Tell her we feel for her.
    ~a

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  11. They need to get one of those critter scare sprinklers that turn on automatically when something is in the area. Of course everyone else would have to walk on the other side of the road.

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  12. Ahhh... this makes me so angry!
    I think this person needs a security camera, one of those intruder sprinklers AND a dog... named Poppy!

    Why are people so rude? Chances are, if you stop and ask nicely, people will give you a cutting or a flower - and it makes it easier on everyone!

    I want to trust everyone, but unfortunately, those few rotten apples out there, make it hard to trust ANYone!!

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  13. jackie, turf toter (aka Gun Toter)June 13, 2009 at 4:44 PM

    I can hear ya! I have a large turf and asparagus farm and we added a few acres of strawberries this year. The asparagus borders onto one of the towns major roads. That should probably say it all. I have a good view from my house , and it is always the same people in the same vehicles that stop by every day to pick! They have killed off about four rows in semi circles around the openings in the fence because they have overpicked. If they would only ask I would be happy to give them some asparagus, but they are not made that way, it must be in them to be underhanded thieves with no integrity or honour. I can only guess what will happen next year when the strawberries are ready. I might sit there at night with my shotgun to ward off the night raids. haha I guess next year I'll have to put up a 6 foot high razor wire fence, that'le teach em.

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  14. Another thing that people walking by my front gardens--on either side of the bottom of my driveway--allow their dogs to do is walk directly inside of them, dig away, do their duty, and leave it there! I can watch them out my front window sometimes and can hardly believe their rudeness; but I've never gone out to shoo them away...although, I probably should. I just can't understand why some people think that's ok. Fortunately 'most' people are more considerate, at least in my own garden. I guess your friend is in 'some' ways, giving part of herself to others and is in that way sharing her own inner beauty with these thoughtless souls.

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  15. Ooooo! I'd definitely be getting a big guard dog named Poppy. Most definitely! Grrrrrr....

    Cindy

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  16. Her flowers are beautiful! If they weren't so pretty no one would want them..it is a two edged sword.. I say go for the dog, but he would probably just lay in the flower bed..a sign might help. I love poppies but never have good luck with them, Before I forget I did answer your comment the other day on the Prairie Smoke..basically Yes, you should be able to grow it..is it ever dry there? They don't like wet:) :)

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  17. Another plantnapper story! What a shame. We wait so long for the poppies, and they're over so quickly. They won't even last in a vase unless you burn the end with a match -- so likely these stolen ones were wasted. And the under-ripe seed pods, too.

    These ones are lovely. My guess is that the red one could be 'Beauty of Livermere' and the pink one possibly 'Princess Victoria Louise.'

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  18. Deer is one thing, but people stealing my flowers would really make me angry. And I guess the corollary to stealing poppies is that I was taking a walk at work the other day and thought someone had dropped a Memorial Day poppy (you know, one of those little red ones on wire from making a Veteran's donation). When I bent over to check it out, it was a real tiny poppy growing there in the gravel beside the asphalt trail--a very unlikely place. I thought about digging it up and rescuing it, but I decided to leave it since it was making its way.

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