I’m taking part in Brenda from A Cosy Little House’s new series on Thrifty Living 2012. In this series, there will be five women sharing the individual struggles they face economically with their families in a particular region.
Each week [Thursday] one of us, Brenda, Claudia, Elaine, Diane, and myself will feature a topic on how we are living more thriftily in the year 2012.
Welcome to the second post of Thrifty Living 2012, today we are sharing the rest of our stories on how we got here, next week the thrifty team will be addressing our consumption of gasoline in our various regions. What it costs. How we try to cut back on it. What strategies we've implemented.
Living on the West Coast of BC, Canada is expensive, and many luxuries are out of reach, the largest of those being a house. The Vancouver area is rated high as one of the most unaffordable places to live, and owning a house in this area is beyond most of us since average housing prices in Vancouver are around a million dollars. We had longed to move to the Okanagan and purchase a house that we could afford, and live our life for us, not for the mortgage.
My family lives up in the North Okanagan and we have always wanted to call the area our home. With both of my parents rapidly aging, and going through illness we decided to put our condo on the market last spring. Unfortunately so did many others, the market in White Rock was flooded with condo sales, and prices were dropping. There were days during the seven months time it took to sell, that I wondered if it would ever happen. But it did, and we are up here, and about to move into our first “real” home.
This felt like just another road block to us in our long term yearning to move. Two years ago my husband was unexpectedly laid off, and told that he would be back at work in a few months. We had no warning, and had just purchased a new vehicle and had monthly payments.
Just before this all happened I had moved from a garden center job of 15 years, to a retail position indoors, and taken a pay cut of 1/3 less wages. The few months stretched into more, we lost our benefits through his work, and my hours were reduced, we struggled through it like so many are doing today still.
We had two big benefits though, one was, we are children of depression era parents, and we were brought up in one income households. Money was tight when we were both children, and we learned never to spend what we didn’t have, and keep our expectations realistic. So our credit card bills are always paid off at the end of the month, only buy what you can afford.
Our second saving grace is some advice we were given when young. Pay yourself first. It is some of the most important pieces of financial advice anyone can ever receive. There are many ways to set up a saving account that will siphon off a bit of extra for your own personal rainy days, and if you learn this lesson well, you will always have a nest egg for those unexpected events that are bound to happen. By saving small amounts each month, you learn to work with slightly less each month. Soon the benefits of saving will outweigh the pinch of having less money, and when the compound interest starts to add up, it will be a extra incentive to save more.
Drop by and visit Brenda, Claudia, Elaine, Diane to see their stories and how they deal with living thriftily in 2012.
Jen @ Muddy Boot Dreams
Jen such sound advice. My husband has been unable to find work for years that would give us the money for me to stop working so I have had to be the bread winner. He is the house husband. Soon I hope to retire and live on our pension. It will mean living on less but I have had to learn those lessons especially with being cut to part time last year. Luckily I found another job an hour away but for less pay. So I am living the thrifty life...looking forward to these posts.
ReplyDeleteOver here in Ontario everyone talks about the beauty of B.C. and how they would love to live there, but it is way to expensive. I have seen t.v programs where 1200 square foot older bungalows were close to a million dollars, where here it would be aprox $150 000.
ReplyDeleteI also have heard about paying yourself first and just started that last summer. These days everyone needs to adhere to these good financial tips. Thanks ofr the post. Have a great day.
Great advice and beautiful photos, my friend! It is so important to watch what you spend and pay everything in full each month. And very smart to save some, too. I'm so happy that you were able to move to be close to your family. You will really enjoy that! ♥
ReplyDeleteWonderful advice.
ReplyDeleteGood advice Jen but lets point out that there are huge suburbs outside of Vancouver proper that don't cost nearly as much as right in Vancouver.
ReplyDeleteA million bucks would buy a small mansion in Mission or Abbotsford.
You have some great thoughts Jen..I pay off the Credit Card monthly too. I also try to write a check to ourselves once a month to be used in the months when Insurance or Taxes are due..and if it isn't used after a few months I transfer it to savings:)
ReplyDeleteGreat advice, Jen. Money is so tight for us right now that we can't even pay ourselves! But we will. So glad to be sharing this series with you.
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Claudia
Great advice, Jen! Savings has been the first lesson I wanted to implement, and did. It makes me sleep a lot easier at night! I am so happy for you getting your first house. You have saved and struggled, and you so deserve this for the two of you! Being near family is the icing on the cake (as I'm learning myself.)
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Jenn, what excellent advice ya gave here.
ReplyDeleteA simular thing happened to us a few years back when we were forced to close our Semi Truckin' business due the the high fuel prices. Hubs and I both were takin' salary from the company. Ouch!!!
It was a slim eight months before Hubs landed a job but we survived keepin' ourselves and the animals fed.
We were raised by parents who survived the depression also.
Girl, I must say your beautiful flower photos brightened up this very dreary day!!! Thanks!!!
God bless and have yourself an extraordinary day sweetie!!!
Your story is one we should all learn from. You are prepared because you planned ahead. Such wise advice for all of us. I am excited to see your story unfold.
ReplyDeleteMy in-laws never bought anything unless they could pay cash for it. Definitely a lesson everyone should learn. Too many people think they need everything right away and wind up getting in over their heads. Patience is definitely a virtue. Wishing you all the best, Tammy
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you were able to reach your dream of moving to Okanagon Valley. You've probably already learned it takes less $$ when things are not so eadily available too! We have always, always....lived without much, money or things but had been able to buy homes, garden and eat! Who needs much more than that?
ReplyDeleteSo looking forward to learning from you and the others in this series. Pay yourself first -- great advice.
ReplyDeleteFirst off, beautiful pictures!
ReplyDeleteI love the west coast and Vancouver Island but agree, very pricey. My Mom lived in Vancouver for 20 years but when it came to retirement a few years ago, she couldn't afford to stay and moved to our small town in Alberta.
Great advice to pay yourself first. We try very hard to add to our savings, but some months are harder than others since my husband is self employed.
Have a great day!
Jen,
ReplyDeletePaying yourself first is something many of us overlook, much the same way we overlook taking care of ourselves. But we have to strengthen ourselves, whether it be financially or healthwise, if we are to take care of our loved ones and responsibilities.
Excellent advice, Jen!
Looking forward to next weeks posting!
RaShell
Hi Jen, you've given some great tips in your post...times are tight for so many folks now.
ReplyDeleteIt's hard when the parents get older, and our children will say the same of us one day.
I understand your moving from Van to the OK completely. We did the same in 2006 when we left Sechelt for the Cariboo.
We've never regretted it and enjoy life so much more here. Gardening, fishing, berry picking...love it.
Hi Jen, you've given some great tips in your post...times are tight for so many folks now.
ReplyDeleteIt's hard when the parents get older, and our children will say the same of us one day.
I understand your moving from Van to the OK completely. We did the same in 2006 when we left Sechelt for the Cariboo.
We've never regretted it and enjoy life so much more here. Gardening, fishing, berry picking...love it.
Jen...I am so happy that you were able to buy your house. I wish you all the best. I take all of your advice to heart. Especially making your savings account a priority. I make a deposit when we get paid and if there is anything left over just prior to the next pay period, I deposit that as well. This works for us and gives us a sense of security.
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Jane
Jen, you give such sound advice. There are many of us living a simpler life. The linked blogs writing about thrifty living sharing ideas give voice to the struggles that so many face, bringing them hope, helping them find a better way, showing them that they can over come. I'll keep reading.
ReplyDeleteGreat advice!
ReplyDeleteMy mom cut coupons and shopped the sales at several grocery stores weekly. We grew up wearing hand me downs and bargain basement clothes. What she saved went into a savings account and then (and here is the brilliant part) when there was enough, moved it to her portfolio where it grew & grew. Depression era babies rock!
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Zuzu
Oh my! You guys are really brave souls. Your parents have to be so proud of their kids though and the choices that you have made in staying free of credit card debt! Stay strong! It does pay off!
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to read more...