Friday, January 18, 2013

Winter, sometimes you are hard to love

 

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If the seasons had

personalities like people do

what would they be like.

Spring would be demure, and

soft spoken, all coy glances,

and soft pink frills, a real

girly kind of personality. 

Summer would be exuberant,

open arms, hugs, tank tops

a throw back to the hippy

days with a real anything

goes kind of attitude. 

Fall would be quiet and

contemplative a bookworm that loves details, cosy fires, crisp leaves, and long walks.

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And Winter…well it would be like that person that seems prickly and hard to get to know, but turns out to be not a curmudgeon, but a faithful, and honest companion. The one that you would call when you needed something that you couldn’t ask anyone else to do for you.  The one that sets boundaries that only open up after years of friendship, and then very carefully lets you in bit by bit.

Winter is determined, fierce, and loyal, do not turn against winter, it will never forgive you.  Winter can be playful, not like summer, or spring, but in a here’s beautiful day get outside and enjoy it kind of way.

Winter will take you out of your comfort zone, it’s good at doing that. But it is also a teacher, you will learn more about yourself in winter then any other season.

 

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Spring dilly dallies…flounces about with it’s blossoms, and bulbs, it’s not a serious season, it’s very into itself, all about renewal, like a day at the spa.

 

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Summer is gregarious, mercurial, some days it’s over the top, others days it embraces you wholeheartedly. Summer has many moods most of them sunny, but when it’s unhappy you will know it, think of summer storms…

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Fall, is more complex then we realize, deep, thoughtful, planning ahead, always considerate of what’s to come.  Fall is responsible for winter’s happiness, and never forgets that, it would love to just relax, let the leaves fall as they may, but it can’t.  Fall is like the older child, it knows it’s responsibilities and will never shirk them.

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Winter is demanding, and can be harsh, but occasionally regrets that behaviour, so it tries to make up for it’s strength by fluctuating…winter hasn’t quite figured out who it is yet.  Some days it’s warm and inviting, letting spring peek through the bare patches in the snow, the grass start to green, and then it changes it mind.  Holding onto the season with all of it’s might.

Winter sometimes you are hard to love, but we are trying and learning to embrace you.

 

Jen @ Muddy Boot Dreams

 

Don’t forget to link up your No winter Whining – Finding color in winter this Sunday Jan 19th at 

Life is like a garden to join in our No Winter Whining link up party.  And be sure to “like” our Facebook page, and join

in fun at our NWW pinterest boards.  One post per week will be given the NWW virtual snowball award, and their posts

added to the FB and Pinterest sites.  Linky will stay open until the following Thursdays.  So get those cameras clicking

and find some color in winter.

21 comments:

  1. Good morning Jen. I love your post today - the photos, the words and thoughts - I think you described each season beautifully. It is -20 here this morning and the high is going up to -16. It was +2 yesterday and will be zero tomorrow with showers on Sunday. I am watching the little birdies at the feeders and wondering how they keep their tiny bodies warm. Enjoy the day.

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  2. Lovely photos and post ! As a photographer I have learnt to embrace winter for there is nothing I can do about it , if ya cant beat it join it . It is a fridge one today the coldest yet this year with only a dusting of snow but I love to walk with my Miggs or take photos so I bundle up and off I go to enjoy the crisp fresh air and the winter nature around me ! Then come in and warm by the fire ah life is good. Have a good day !

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  3. you have such a way with a camera, beautiful photos, I love winter, I always have, visiting our local green house helps to nourish my loss of blooms,

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  4. The pictures of the beautiful flowers makes me wanting spring and warm weather. I bought groceries the other day and added a pretty pink Cyclamen to my list. A spot of spring on my window seat in the bay windows.

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  5. Your today's post has so much meaning. And as usual your photos are magnificent. Have a great weekend!!

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  6. Good post! I'll try to stop thinking of winter as the White Witch of Narnia.

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  7. This reads like poetry, Jen. And the second icy sunlit photograph ~ stunning.

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  8. Well written post - very thought-provoking.

    Remember the trend of determining an individual's "season" and colors which would look the best on that person? You've turned the tables and applied the concept to Nature.

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  9. Beautiful post Jen... I can see several stories within! Fantastic photos too... Cheers~

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  10. You have touched on so many aspects of all the seasons in such a poetic and profound way. Lovely writing style, Jen, and a pleasure to read.

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  11. I was never a winter person either until I discovered there is sooo much to do in the winter and places you can see once the ground is frozen. Snowshoeing in the marshes and snowmobiling in behind people's farm properties to get a sneak peak! With good warm clothes and a sense of adventure I've learned to embrace it, I even look forward to it!

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  12. A thought provoking post, Jen. You have a way with words in best describing the seasons. Love your photography today.

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  13. This post is a beautiful poetic approach to loving each season for what it brings to us. Thanks. Beautiful photos too!

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  14. Thanks for trying to make me feel better about winter:)

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  15. I love the snow pics with all of the bright sunshine and shadows! It's gorgeous! Gotta put on those dark sunglasses to enjoy! Sweet hugs!

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  16. Ah yes, good old winter. I liked your reference to winter being a season for getting to know ourselves better. Couldn't agree more... we are forced to spend more time with ourselves and that's the trick to it.

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  17. Nice. Spring is my favourite season, with Summer a close second...what does that say about me, I wonder? *grin*

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  18. Oh, I'm so glad it's OK to whine on some days of the week--just not Sundays, right? I don't think I can make it through the winter without whining a little bit. It's simply a coping mechanism.

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  19. Perfect description and winter just brings whining out since we are not able to do things we love...it is beautiful yet harsh and so restrictive at times...

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  20. Lovely and true! We are kind of new to this lifestyle. Some rooms are freezing and I go around chilly on those days except where the fireplace is.. But oh the beauty of a snowfall. I purchased snowshoes and trekking poles. Not used yet.. Today I am embracing the sunshine and the snow is melting. I am learning about layers and I find a fleece vest is very cozy....Have a wonderful day. You will love this blog and lady behind it..http://ethelandthecrow.blogspot.com/

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  21. Very interesting thoughts and lovely photographs. I think of winter as that annoying cousin who comes as a house guest and stays too long.

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Jen @ Muddy Boot Dreams

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